Hi, we are Josh and Katie. We met in 2005 on a blind date set up by our mutual friends. We were married in 2010, surrounded by our family and friends. We spent the next four years traveling the world!
We have built our family through adoption. In 2014, we adopted our son, Jackson, and in 2016 we adopted our daughter, Emma. Our days are now filled with soccer games (Josh is the coach), movie nights, fort building, Pokémon card battles, coloring, playing barbies, and busting our butts to make sure our children have happy lives and become successful adults.
We can’t imagine being in your position. Everything must feel incredibly heavy. The pressure to choose the “right” family for your baby is probably overwhelming. We wish you peace in this process and a positive experience no matter the outcome. We have always wanted a big family. Katie was born with a hip condition that would make it difficult to carry a child, so adoption has always been our plan. Jackson and Emma’s birth moms have various levels of contact with them, and we are comfortable with an open or closed adoption. We are humbled that you are taking the time to get to know us. We are beyond excited to become parents again and can’t wait to welcome another child.
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.
Every child deserves a loving, safe home.
Adoption is not just about giving a child your name—it's about giving them a future, an identity, and a chance at love. This blog dives into the stories of families who have chosen adoption, the challenges and rewards they’ve experienced, and how adoption reshapes lives—not just for the child, but for the entire family. It’s a journey of compassion, commitment, and hope.Adoption is not just about giving a child your name—it's about giving them a future, an identity, and a chance at love. This blog dives into the stories of families who have chosen adoption, the challenges and rewards they’ve experienced, and how adoption reshapes lives—not just for the child, but for the entire family. It’s a journey of compassion, commitment, and hope.Adoption is not just about giving a child your name—it's about giving them a future, an identity, and a chance at love. This blog dives into the stories of families who have chosen adoption, the challenges and rewards they’ve experienced, and how adoption reshapes lives—not just for the child, but for the entire family. It’s a journey of compassion, commitment, and hope.